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Sexy Lingerie
While most people realize that sexy lingerie can add spice to their love lives, they may not be aware that it can also make a man or woman feel better about themselves in general.
A woman who wears plain and practical underwear under her clothes will generally feel less confident than one whose lingerie matches the quality of her designer outfit.
A man who wears boxer shorts under his business suit will not exude the same presence as a man who wears silk briefs.
So if you want to enhance someone's self image, give him or her a set of good quality, sensual underwear.
The sexy lingerie market has exploded since Frederick's of Hollywood first opened its doors for business. And thanks to the Internet, you can now purchase an amazing range of sensual lingerie and sleepwear from the privacy of your own home.
We conducted a quick survey of lingerie suppliers and here's what we discovered.
Wearing Sexy Lingerie Is Not Age Dependent
Contrary to the myth that only the young and gorgeous wear sexy underwear, the storeowners we surveyed assured us that men and women of all ages shop in their lingerie stores.
We recently read a comment by a lingerie site owner who stated:
When men buy sexy lingerie for their lovers, they're really giving a gift for themselves.
While there is an element of truth in that statement, we feel that sexy lingerie is also a gift for the woman who's smart enough to recognize it.
Wearing sexy lingerie can completely alter a woman's self image and therefore her behavior. Here are three more articles on the subject.
How To Be The Goddess You've Always Wanted To Be
According to Gregory Godek, best-selling author of 1001 Ways to Be Romantic, one of the most frequent complaints he hears from the men in his ongoing Romance Class is that the women in their lives are reluctant to wear sexy lingerie. Not surprisingly, many of the men in his classes listed this as one of their greatest fantasies.
But first, let's look at the most important reason to wear sexy lingerie.
Why Acting “As If” Works To Change Behavior
There's a trick that professional actors use to help them get into a part. And it's actually quite simple. They put on the clothes of the character they're playing and move around in them for several minutes. It's amazing how wearing an old man's threadbare slippers will encourage an actor to walk with a halting step. Or putting on a tailored suit and high heels will cause an actress to stand straighter and literally march into a room.
So it is with sexy lingerie. The act of wearing it will create subtle shifts in your personality from the outside in. But if a woman is reluctant to wear it for some reason, perhaps because of self-consciousness or embarrassment, there is a very simple way to ease into the habit.
Walk Around With A Secret
Buy a set of sexy underwear, perhaps a matching bra and panty, and wear them under your work clothes. No one else need know what you're wearing, but you will. Pay attention to your attitude on the days you wear your new underwear. Do you feel more feminine? More confident? More attractive? Sexier?
Get a little braver. Go out and buy a garter belt and stockings and wear them under your trendy clothes when you go out for drinks with friends. How does this affect your confidence?
Remember that no one else need ever know what you're wearing. Until there comes a time when you want to let someone in on the secret. And that's totally your choice.
Sexy Underwear Hides A Woman's Worst Figure Faults
Yes, there is a solution to a less-than-perfect body.
* Are you embarrassed by flabby thighs? Go down to your local dancewear shop and buy the special fishnet stockings that Las Vegas showgirls wear. Ask for the brands that cling so firmly to your legs that an earthquake of 7.5 on the Richter scale won't cause the slightest ripple.
Wear them for the entire length of your next romantic encounter. A pair of scissors is all you need to make some practical changes and you won't damage the stockings because of their sturdy weave.
* Are you thick around the middle? Try clinging teddies in black and other dark colors. They create an effect of elongating and slimming the torso.
* Do you have small breasts? Buy an uplift bra with foam inserts. Add matching panties, stockings and whatever else you need to complete the outfit and you'll feel like a movie goddess.
* Are your breasts large and heavy? Wrap them up in a bustier and look like a wench straight out of his wildest fantasies.
* Do you have short legs? Wear fishnets and spiked heels to bed. Don't take them off.
You can hide any flaw with some well-chosen lingerie that exposes what you like and covers what you don't. It may take a bit of experimentation but you'll surprise yourself with how good you look in the right gear.
And the great thing about it is that your partner will be so blown away he'll see you differently as well. Even if you think you still have a few pounds or kilos to lose, he'll be so distracted by the Playboy fantasy in front of him that your weight is the last thing he'll be thinking about.
The only problem is that once you start wearing sexy lingerie to bed, you may never want to be naked again.
How To Turn Your Shy Lover Into A Tigress - With Sexy Lingerie
If you're like most men, you probably have a highly developed response to visual stimuli. Which means you enjoy looking at beautiful women, whether in magazines and walking down the street, in gorgeous clothes and without them. It's also likely that you find women's sexy lingerie very visually appealing. But that doesn't mean the woman in your life is necessarily willing to indulge that preference.
There are a couple of reasons for this. Women, in general, tend to utilize more of their senses at any one time, especially in intimate situations. So while sex may involve a huge visual component for you, your partner is focusing on sights, sounds, touch, taste and smell, all at the same time. She doesn't understand the importance of visual stimuli for you, so she can easily dismiss your request for her to wear sexy lingerie.
But the second reason is probably more important. Most women still live with the culturally imposed expectation that they need to be young and beautiful in order to be desirable. They do daily battle comparing themselves to the impossible standards of beauty offered up in magazines, film and television. So very few women are satisfied with their appearance, and can be very ruthless in identifying and cataloguing their so-called flaws. No matter how often you tell your lover she's beautiful – and you'd better do this at least once a day if you want the relationship to flourish - at some deep level she won't believe you, and will rationalize that you're temporarily blind to her flaws because you love her.
So it's highly unlikely that she'll want to strut around the bedroom in revealing lingerie because she'll feel inadequate wearing it.
Here is one strategy for changing the situation in a slow and non-threatening way.
Start a Small Conspiracy
If you have a reluctant partner who won't indulge your fantasy of seeing her in nothing but high heels and a garter belt, it might be a thought to ease off on the pressure and approach things another way.
Buy your lover some lovely, feminine lingerie from a better quality store like Victoria's Secret. (Forget the crotchless panties for now – that comes later if you practice a little patience.)
Present your gift with no strings attached. Tell her you simply want the pleasure of knowing that she's walking around in those gorgeous little bits of nothing, and that nobody knows about it except you and her. Resist the temptation to ask her to model your gift or you'll be right back to Square One.
Give her other little gifts along the same lines from time to time. And eventually she'll be the one who can't wait to show off her sexy lingerie to you.
Sexy Lingerie For The Plus Size Woman
Sexy lingerie for the plus size woman is more readily available today than ever before. Thanks goodness we've moved beyond the idea that only a slim young woman can be sexually attractive. As a result, plus size clothing and lingerie now offer the same excellent quality and style that's always been available in the smaller sizes. If you haven't experienced it recently, shopping for sexy lingerie for the plus size woman can be a revelation.
Plus size women are reclaiming their positions as vibrant, attractive women despite the excessive thinness of the current crop of models. And when you consider it, they definitely have history on their side. In previous centuries a woman with curves was considered the feminine ideal, and it's never more obvious than in the paintings of nudes by the Old Masters. As recently as the 1950s, female sex symbols like Marilyn Monroe and Sophia Loren gave meaning to the term “all woman”.
So if you're a woman who's endowed with feminine curves, celebrate the fact in your choice of clothing and colors, and indulge yourself with some sexy lingerie. Even if you're not pleased with every aspect of your body – and what woman is – it's easy to disguise what you don't like and make the most of what you do.
